About

Our Mission Statement

Lilli’s Light is a prevention and awareness 501(c)(3) non-profit organization dedicated to educating students and communities about the dangers of fentanyl, fake pills, and opioid misuse while promoting mental and physical well-being. Through education, real-life stories, and community engagement, Lilli’s Light works to reduce stigma, encourage early intervention, and save lives.

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Meet the Team

Meet who Empower and Drive Lilli's Light Forward.

PRESIDENT

Wendy Parrish

This mission was born from the need to turn pain into purpose. I am the grieving aunt of Lilli, an 18-year-old who unknowingly ingested a lethal amount of fentanyl just two months after graduating from high school. I founded Lilli’s Light to educate families and students about the dangers of fentanyl, counterfeit prescription pills, and the opioid epidemic, while promoting the life-saving importance of Naloxone and equipping young people with real-world tools to navigate peer pressure and make safe choices. Professionally, I serve as the Director of College Operations and Executive Administrator to the Dean in the Linda Berry Stein College of Arts and Sciences at Jacksonville University. While Lilli’s passing brought devastating grief, I am deeply grateful for the love and strength of my brother Sam, my mother Sandy, and my boyfriend Stan, who help me stand strong and continue this mission.

VICE-PRESIDENT

Ashley Lopez

Through my work with Solar Energy Labs and Lilli's Light, I'm committed to serving others with integrity and heart. Family is my foundation- 23 years of marriage, two incredible children, a dog who keeps us laughing, and a deep love for my parents who shaped who I am today. Everything I do is fueled by love, purpose, and the belief that light can come from even the hardest places.

DIRECTOR OF COMMUNICATIONS

Alyssa Lopez

Through my work with Phoenix Force Creative Solutions and Lopez Ledger, I’m grateful for the opportunity to serve my community with integrity, compassion, and purpose. My family is at the heart of everything I do—they inspire me each day to help create stability, opportunity, and a future grounded in care and service. It’s truly an honor to support Lilli’s Light by sharing my skills and resources to uplift others with heart, respect, and a sincere commitment to making a difference.

IT MANAGER

Janiqua Williams

I am originally from St. Kitts and serve as an Office Assistant in the School of Social Sciences & Education at Jacksonville University, where I met Wendy through my role. Learning about Lilli’s Light and the story behind its mission deeply resonated with me.
Supporting this organization is important to me because I believe education, awareness, and prevention truly save lives. Working in higher education allows me to see how critical it is to equip students with the
knowledge and confidence to make safe, informed decisions.
Outside of work, I enjoy traveling, attending sporting events, and exploring different cultures. Those experiences, along with my Caribbean roots, continue to shape my appreciation for community, connection, and living with purpose.

What Sets Lilli's Light Apart?

Advocacy

We amplify voices that are often unheard—families, survivors, and those in recovery—to push for policies and solutions that save lives.

Community

No one should walk this journey alone. We build supportive networks for families, survivors, and advocates united against the opioid epidemic.

Education

We fight misinformation with facts. Through awareness campaigns and community training, we empower people with knowledge that can prevent tragedy.

Testimonials

Teacher

"Thank you for all you are doing. My Wife and I lost our son to Fentanyl poisoning. I couldn't do what you're doing, so thank you for having the strength to share your story to save others."

Student

"I'm calling my little brother in high school right after this. We've never heard of Fentanyl, and it's scary to think it's hidden in other things."

Staff Member

I knew about Fentanyl, but I had no idea it's killing more than a hundred people every day. Your presentation should be on TV like the old 'This is your Brain on Drugs' commercial."

FAQ

What are the signs of an Opioid Overdose?

Opioids slow the central nervous system, particularly breathing. During an overdose, breathing may slow dangerously or stop entirely. Common Signs are:

Slow, shallow, irregular, or no breathing
Gurgling, choking, or snoring-like sounds
Blue, gray, or pale lips and fingernails
Pinpoint (very small) pupils
Unresponsiveness or inability to wake the person
Limp body
Cold or clammy skin

Brain injury can begin within minutes due to lack of oxygen. Recognizing these signs quickly is critical. If you are unsure whether it is an overdose, treat it as one. Acting quickly can save a life.

What should I do if someone overdoses?

If you suspect an overdose: Call 911 or your local Emergency Services immediately. Provide your name, location, and quick details. Stay on the line if instructed; you may be asked to perform medical aid until First Responders arrive on scene as directed by the Dispatcher.

Many states have "Good Samaritan" Laws that protect people who call for help during an overdose emergency.

What is Naloxone (Narcan)?

Naloxone is a life-saving medication that reverses Opioid overdoses. It works by blocking Opioids from attaching to receptors in the brain, restoring breathing within minutes. It is non-addictive, cannot be misused to get "high", and is safe for widespread community use. Follow the instructions on the packaging and administer immediately if available.

Is it safe Naloxone be administered multiple times if needed?

Because Fentanyl is so potent and fast acting, widespread access to Naloxone is one of the most effective tools in preventing deaths. Naloxone can be used multiple times as needed to reverse a Fentanyl overdose. It is recommended, however, to administer Naloxone while being directed by 911 or your local emergency services, so that they can provide further insight on steps to be taken as well as be made aware of how many doses were given during emergency aid.

What are Fentanyl Test Strips?

Fentanyl Test Strips are small told that can detect the presence of Fentanyl in a substance before it is used. While they do not measure the amount of Fentanyl or guarantee safety, they can however provide critical information, increase awareness to contamination, and reduce accidental exposure. Test strips are part of harm reduction strategies that aim to keep people alive long enough to seek treatment and recovery.

How do I talk to my child about Fentanyl?

Have open, honest, and non-judgmental conversations. Focus on safety rather than punishment. Explain that counterfeit pills and other substances may contain Fentanyl, even if someone thinks they are taking something else. Encourage questions. Make sure your child knows they can call you for help without fear or immediate punishment. Communication builds trust can can prevent tragedy.

What warning signs should I look for?

Possible warning signs of substances use may include:

Sudden changes in behavior or mood
Withdrawing from family or friends
Changes in sleep patterns
Decline in academic or work performance
Secrecy or unusual financial issues

While these signs do not always indicate substance use, they may signal the need for a supportive conversation.

What should I do if I suspect my loved one is using?

Approach the situation with compassion rather than confrontation. Express concern and focus on safety. Seek professional guidance from a healthcare provider or addiction specialist if needed. Remember: Addiction is a medical condition, not a moral failure.

Is Addiction a disease?

Yes. Substance Use Disorder is recognized as a chronic medical condition that affects brain chemistry, behavior, and decision-making. It is not a sign of weakness or lack of will-power. Like other chronic conditions, addiction can be managed and treated with appropriate care and support.

What treatment options are available?

Treatment may include:

Medication-assisted treatment (MAT), such as Buprenorphine or Methadone
Impatient or outpatient programs
Individual or group counseling
Peer recovery support
Mental health services

There is no one-size-fits-all approach. Recovery looks different for everyone.

Where can I find help?

If you or someone you love is struggling, help is available. In the United States (US), you can contact:

SAMHSA National Helpline at 1-(800) 662-HELP for Free, confidential treatment referrals.

What is Fentanyl?

Fentanyl is a powerful synthetic opioid used medically to treat severe pain, such as after surgery or for advanced cancer patients. It is 50-100 times stronger than Morphine.

Why is Fentanyl so Dangerous?

Fentanyl commonly spoken of today is the Illegally manufactured Fentanyl that can be found on the streets. It is also now widely mixed into several other street drugs, including but not limited to: Heroin, Cocaine, Methamphetamine, and counterfeit pills. Many people who overdose never intended to take Fentanyl and may not have known it was present. Fentanyl is a very potent opioid, even a small amount taken by ingesting, breathing in, or by touching it can cause respiratory failure and death if not treated immediately.

What are Opioids?

Opioids are a class of drugs that include prescription pain relievers (like Oxycodone and Hydrocodone), Heroin, and Synthetic Opioids like Fentanyl. They work by binding to receptors in the brain that reduce paid and produce feelings of relaxation or euphoria. While Opioids can be effective for managing pain when prescribed and monitored properly, they also carry high risks of dependence, addiction, and overdose if misused.

What can make Opioids so Dangerous?

While Opioids can be effective for managing pain when prescribed and monitored properly, they also carry high risks of dependence, addiction, and overdose if misused. Illegally manufactured Opioids can carry much higher risks than medical grade medications.

What is the difference between opioids used by medical professionals and opioids manufactured illegally?

Medical Opioids are prescription medications used to treat pain. When prescribed by licensed professionals and taken exactly as directed, these medications are manufactured under strict regulations. Their usage, purity, and strength are carefully controlled. If misused however, they can carry high risks of dependency, addiction, and potentially overdose. Street Opioids on the other hand, are illegal substances and are not regulated. This means there is no quality control, strength can vary widely from batch to batch, and are often mixed in with other unknown substances. Something that may have been survived one day, could be potentially lethal the next.

Are Counterfeit Pills common?

Yes, counterfeit pills are very common. They are made to look like legitimate prescription medications (such as Oxycodone, Xanex, or Adderall) and are widespread. Many of these fake pills that can be found on the streets contain Fentanyl in today's drug suppliers distributions, and as such vary widely in potentially lethal amounts and/or are highly unpredictable.

Why does language matter?

Stigmatizing language increases shame and can prevent people from seeking help. Using first-person language recognizes that people are more than their diagnosis and helps create a culture of compassion and recovery.

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What if I've lost someone to an overdose?

Losing a loved one to overdose brings profound grief- often compounded by stigma and unanswered questions. There is no "right" way to grieve. Consider seeking grief counseling or support groups for families impacted by overdose loss.

You are not alone. Many families find healing through connection, advocacy, or sharing their loved ones story. Please feel free to Contact Us, and we would be happy to connect with you.

How can I share my loved one's story?

You can submit a Memorial Tribute through our website by visiting our Honor Wall page. We welcome photos, stories, memories, and messages that celebrate your loved one's life. Sharing their story helps reduce stigma and reminds the world that behind every statistic is a deeply loved human being.

Why do you share memorial stories?

Stories humanize the Epidemic. They remind us that this crisis affects families, friends, and entire communities. By honoring those lost, we also strengthen awareness and prevention efforts. Every life matters. Every story deserves to be told.

Is grief support available?

Grief after an overdose loss can be complex and isolating. We encourage connecting with grief counselors, peer support groups, or community organizations that specialize in loss due to substance use. You are not alone. Support is available.

What should I avoid saying?

Avoid language that blames and shames (e.g., "Why can't you just stop?"). Stigma can prevent people from seeking help, or even open up discussions. Use first-person language such as "a person with substance use disorder" rather than "addict. Use empathy and kindness and respect when speaking. Substance Use Disorder isn't something by choice, and confrontational circumstances can do more harm than good.

What if my loved one refuses treatment?

Watching someone you love struggle with Opioid use and refuse treatment can feel heartbreaking and helpless. It's important to remember that addiction is a complex disease that affects the brain, decision-making, and behavior. Resistance to treatment is common, and it does not mean your loved one doesn't care or won't ever seek help. While you cannot force someone to change before they are ready (except in specific legal or medical circumstances), there are still meaningful steps you ca take: Communicating, setting boundaries, educating yourself, prepare for change, professional guidance, and more.

Should I carry Naloxone if my loved one uses Opioids?

Yes, if someone you love is using Opioids, whether prescribed or illicit, carrying Naloxone (Narcan) can save their life. Naloxone is a safe, easy-to-use medication that can reverse an opioid overdose by restoring breathing. It has no potential for abuse and will no harm someone if opioids are not present, in both adult and children. Carrying Naloxone is not enabling substance use- it is an act of love, protection, and preparedness.

What should I do if I suspect an overdose?

If you suspect an Opioid Overdose, acting quickly can save a life.

Call 911 immediately
Administer Naloxone right away
Begin rescue breaking or CPR, if trained or being advised by 911
Stay with them
Give more doses of Naloxone, if needed

Naloxone can temporarily reverse an overdose, but its effects may wear off in 30-90 minutes. Emergency aid is still necessary. Your quick action could mean the difference of life and death; being prepared is one of the most powerful ways you can protect someone you love.

Why should schools and community organizations address Fentanyl and Opioid Awareness?

The fentanyl crisis is affecting communities of every size, income level, and background. Young people are increasingly at risk- often through counterfeit pills shared among peers or purchased through social media.

Schools and community organizations play a critical role in:

Providing accurate, age-appropriate education
Reducing stigma around substance use and mental health
Teaching overdose prevention and response
Creating safe spaces for students to ask questions

Prevention starts with awareness, and trusted adults can make a life-saving difference.

At what age should Fentanyl Education begin?

Prevention should be age-appropriate and begin early.

Focus on safe decision-making, understanding medication safely, and identifying trusted adults for younger groups. For

pre-teens or teens, introduce basic information about substance risks and peer pressure. For students in High School or College, provide clear education about Fentanyl and Opioids, Counterfeit pills, overdose risks and Naloxone.

Honest, factual information, without fear-based tactics, if the most effective. We want to provide safe, open spaces of discussion. For our youth to ask questions without fear of punishment. The more we can openly talk and have such discussion, the more chances we provide for lives to be saved and the closer we can get to ending the stigma around substance use to help future generations feel safe and supported without fear or shame.

How can Educators talk about Fentanyl without causing fear or panic?

Effective education focuses on facts, empowerment, and safety rather than scare tactics. Best practices include:

Using medically accurate, evidence-based information
Avoiding graphic or sensationalized content
Emphasizing that help and support are available
Encouraging open dialogue and questions
Reinforcing that students can come to trusted adults without fear of punishment

The goal is informed decision-making; not fear.

What are counterfeit pills, and why are they so dangerous?

Counterfeit pills are fake prescription medications made to look like real drugs such as Oxycodone, Percocet, Xanax, Adderall, and more. Many carry risks of containing or being contaminated with Fentanyl or other mixed drugs.

Students may believe they are taking a legitimate prescription medication when, in reality, they are taking a potentially lethal substance. Even one pill can contain a deadly dose of Fentanyl.

Education about counterfeit pills is one of the most critical prevention tools available.

Should Schools carry Naloxone? How can be effectively distributed to students without causing fear?

Many schools across the country now carry Naloxone as part of their emergency response protocols. Naloxone is a safe, easy-to-administer medication that can reverse an Opioid overdose.

Benefits of having Naloxone on campus:

Immediate response capability during an emergency
Increased safety for students, staff, and visitors
Reinforcement that overdose is a medical emergency

Schools should review state laws and district policies regarding Naloxone access and training.

How do we reduce stigma in schools and communities?

Stigma prevents people from seeking help. We can reduce it by:

Using person-first language (e.g., “person with substance use disorder” rather than “addict”)
Treating addiction as a health issue, not a moral failing
Sharing real stories that humanize the crisis
Promoting mental health resources openly

When we reduce shame, we increase the likelihood of recovery and intervention.

How can schools support students affected by overdose loss?

Many students are grieving friends or family members lost to overdose. Schools can support them by:

Providing access to counseling services
Creating grief-informed policies
Avoiding stigmatizing language
Offering remembrance opportunities in appropriate ways

Compassionate acknowledgment helps reduce isolation and stigma.

How can community organizations get involved in prevention efforts?

Community groups can:

Host educational forums and awareness events
Partner with schools for prevention programming
Distribute naloxone and training resources
Share information through faith groups, youth programs, and local networks
Support families affected by loss

Prevention works best when communities act together.

What resources can we provide to parents and families?

Schools and community organizations can share:

Information about fentanyl and counterfeit pills
Local treatment and counseling resources
Crisis hotline information (988)
Guidance on starting conversations at home
Information on how to access naloxone

Parent education nights and community forums can be especially impactful.

What is the most important message for students and communities to understand?

No one is immune to this crisis.

Fentanyl can be hidden in substances that appear safe. One decision can have irreversible consequences. But knowledge, compassion, and preparedness can prevent tragedy.

Every conversation matters. Every life matters.

How can I volunteer?

Volunteers may help with awareness events, community outreach, educational campaigns, memorial walks, and advocacy efforts. Visit our Blog to keep up to date with awareness events and campaigns ongoing. Please also feel free to reach out to us through our Contact Us page to get any more details of how you can help our communities. Visit our Honor Wall to see the people we honor in our mission.

How can I donate?

Donations support education, outreach, memorial initiatives, advocacy, and life-saving prevention tools. Every contribution helps us continue our mission and expand our impact. Visit our Donations Page to see how you can support the cause.

Can I host an awareness event?

Yes. Community-led events play a powerful role in spreading education and honoring loved ones. We can provide guidance, materials, and support to help you organize an event in your area. Contact Us today to learn more.

What is our Mission?

What began as shared heartbreak grew into camaraderie, partnership, and extended family love — combining resources and determination to help Lilli’s Light grow into a professional organization throughout northeast Florida. We speak openly and authentically about the human side of the opioid crisis, driven by one unwavering goal: to save other families from living this nightmare.

Where do Donations go?

Donations fund:

Public Education Campaigns
Lilli's Light Memorial Scholarship Education Support
Community Outreach events
Memorial Programs
Advocacy Initiatives
Prevention Resources

We are committed to transparency and responsible stewardship of every contribution. Donate today to help us help communities.

How can I contact you?

You can reach us using a couple of methods:

Follow us through our Social Medias: Facebook and/or Instagram
Email us directly using Lillislight1998@gmail.com
Give us a call at (904) 325-4212
Or use the form on our Contact Us page

We welcome questions, partnership opportunities, and opportunities to support families affected by this crisis.